is man an island or not?

they always say no man is an island. i find that interesting. and under normal circumstances i guess i would agree. but today i feel like being difficult and arguing against this stupid statement. cos for too long men have been boxed. placed. painted. cornered. blamed. being selfish. being arrogant. playing around. not being truthful. not being commited. and the reason why is simple. because they are fighting so hard against a identity that they have been given by a corrupt and perverse society. squeezed from every side to be somebody. to act like another. to become something he was never destined to be by a creator. man has lost his identity. man has been given the wrong end of the stick. how i would love to see men around me come to their own. to become the men they have been called to be. men that will change nations. shape worlds. be husbands and fathers. men that will stand up and stop the rot. men that will say no to the pressures and confusion of the world. men that will be proud to be different. men that will not feel stupid or guilty because they are right. real men. is man and island or not. if yes. it is because you placed him there. if no. let the man be to live out his own identity.